S for simple, s for sex

16. Infidelity is never black and white. Everyone has an opinion about marital infidelity, and it’s usually binary: the spouse who cheated is the so-called perpetrator, the spouse who was cheated on is the so-called victim. But the reality is that cheating — and what it means for marriage — is far more complex than that. As therapist Tammy Nelson argues, perhaps it’s time to revisit the concept of monogamy itself, which is under more pressure than ever, what with opportunities to cheat just a mouse click away and ever-increasing lifespans that mean, if couples wed in their 30s, they’re vowing to love, honor, and get busy with only each other for over half a century. If we can admit that most of us are stumped about how to handle monogamy, maybe we can begin to have a conversation that is as complex as infidelity itself.

Sara Wilson

Sadness

Sadness does not sink a person;
it is the energy a person spends
trying to avoid sadness that does that.

Barbara Brown Taylor in Learning to Walk in the Dark (Vía)

School at home

Farrers School for deaf children - Liverpool Road AshfieldSome people think that self-directed education, or ‘kids doing whatever they want,’ means zero responsibility,. In fact, the opposite is true. Kids in conventional educational [settings] have very little responsibility, because ultimately the school, the teacher, or the curriculum designer is given credit for kids’ success or failure. In self-directed education, the learner is making all the decisions, so they get all the credit for their own success or failure. That is responsibility.

Aaron Browder

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